Agape love is not a sentimental,
sweet, affectionate emotion. It is a choice to put others first and to
sacrifice ourselves on their behalf (John 15:13). This kind of love can only come through God's power.
In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, the King James Bible translates the word agape as charity. That’s what godly love is; it’s giving of ourselves to other people (“All things to all men.”) God uses the apostle Paul to show us different characteristics of agape love. Through these characteristics we can see the other spiritual fruits show through.
The sacrificial choice to love is above honor and pride. Agape love chooses to be kind and patient in the face of insult. It is humble despite others' arrogance. It doesn't worry about honor or revenge. Because agape love is empowered by the Holy Spirit, it can ignore worldly values and focus on the hope that others will come to God as well.
Paul’s wisdom is evident in 1 Corinthians 9:19-23 where he tells us about his strategy to win or “gain” people to Jesus. Instead of comparing himself to others (as he warns against doing in 2 Corinthians 10:11-12) he becomes a servant to “all people" (1 Corinthians 9:19).
Paul goes on to say that “unto the
Jews I became as a Jew, that I might gain the Jews” (vs 20); “To them that are
without the law….that I might gain them that are without the law” (vs 21); “To
the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to
all men, that I might by all means save some” (vs 22).
One time at a PTA board meeting
that I was in, the PTA president had brought in someone who taught different
organizations how to work together as a team.
This lady brought a lesson on how we should treat other people….how they
prefer to be treated. She used some cool
games and illustrations to help us conclude that everyone is different, and in
order to bring out the best results in dealing with people we should understand
and recognize those differences and treat them how they prefer.
This is exactly what Paul is telling us to do in 1 Corinthians, chapter 9 by using his own life as an example. He even did it without a power point presentation! His wisdom and insight is enabled by the fruit of Love 💜
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